Why do we love?

hey all,

Its been a long time i posted an entry again, the rest of my frens blogs either they grew too tired of blogging and closed their blog, or left hanging.

But i will Survive!!! haha.. Good things always last forever.

this entry is to dedicate to not only to anonymous people, but also to any lost soul who is heart-brokened, pessismistic, and looking for direction in life.

Once i met this very wise man, he said: 'people often blog and complain about their daily lives, but i blog to encourage others.'

Truly inspired by his talk, but more often then that, i always, as my faithful readers know, complain in my blog. I think it is an inevitable, hard to change bad habit.

Well, first, we have to admit, we are full of bad habits, and we really have to humble ourselves, and believe, we as humans, will never be, perfect, thats why i as a christian says : i'm a sinner.
For sin, means not hitting the mark, pass the standard, and the standard we adhere to, well, lets put it as 100 % first.

then what else can we do? feel hopeless? accept the fact that we will never be able to reach 100%? have to settle with what we are?

and somehow, our mind, body soul is being built with this longing, this thirst of being fulfilled, the joy of pursuing something so that we can reach a 100%, i.e. shopping, falling into a relationship, playing in computer games, obsession with work, studies, play. ANd more often then not, it never, NEVER ! feel the whole in our heart permanently, we never get fulfilled.

I was once like that. never believed it until i tried, until i met Him.

what's love? Love? is it u looking at a pretty girl with cute eyes and fall into deep trance and start thinking of hanging out with her forever? is it trying to even talk to your annoying parent who when u try to be friendly to them and u got a very hostile response back? is it something your prized posession u will never wish to let go.

A wiser man wiser then the guy i mentioned earlier defined clearly, what is love:
'Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.'

For a moment there, i start to believe what anonymous people used to say : there is no love in this world.
to a certain extent that is true. because, who in this current world, loves like the words described as love above? can imagine? Loving someone is a lifetime commitment! imagine loving a girl, all your life, even u stayed with her long enough, know all her flaws, and u start to grow tired of her, how do you continue to love her? will u not be easily angered by her? will u keep a record of wrongs? will u be patient after 50 years with her? Even the most beautiful girl in the world ( if there is any ) if u do not love the way it stated above, most proabably you will grow tired of her.

how could there be no love?

There is Love, there is true geunine love, to you, to me, to everybody. each individual, love given is the same, no more, no less, and pure genuine, which doesnt even need a cert to certify that cause the cert is unworthy itself.

Think about someone, who, even u lie to him, he forgives u, u decided to say cruel jokes that deliberately hurt him, he took it and forgives again, u steal from him, he finds out, yet he let u keep it, u angry with him yet he still loves u, and not only that, but when you decided to keep all your possessions, money, time to yourself, he decided 'hey, i wanna share my money with u, i want to give u my money, my food, more clothes, my toys, my life, why? because i love you'
and true enough, one day, u met with a life threatening incident, and he took the shot/stab/blast/nailed for you.

And that someone is true, He is near, He can enter your life and be your loved one if u let Him. HE is God. Lord Jesus Christ.

I never believe until i try to make friend with him, yes, ok, im a introvert to higher being, but extrovert to human beings. and i found love, true genuine love.
try friends, try to find love the way i did. you will not regret it.

If u wish to know more, drop me a mail, im glad to tell u more:
the_one_roger@hotmail.com