Why do we love?

i was watching the hong kong serial witness to prosecution 1 &2.. if u remember??? Xi yuan Lu...

ya.. i noe its beena long time since they film that show on channel 8, but i somehow manage to grab the cds and i like the plot can?

ok.. so what happens is i watch till this part where song ci and meat ball girl going to fell in love... ya so what happen is song ci actually do like meat ball... but because of his past, his 2 wives being murdered, he dare not have another relationship... but deep down inside, he really like meatball..

and meat ball, really like song ci, despite rejected by him a few times, she secretly still like im alot... few incidences they got into near- confessions status ,but still pretend nothing happen..

i have to clarify something is that although meatball name is meatball, but the size is not k... she quite chio and cute one k...

so what happen is that song ci decided to hang the love butterfly and a piece of jade that his ex wife gave him far far away and see if he will get it back.. to see if he and meat ball got fate to be together... and it did!!!! i not it might sounds a little far fetch to happen in real life here but i believe that if fate wans u two to be together u cant escape from it...

so they fell in love.. as simple as that..

actually, this scene makes me think a lot also... no, its not wat u thinking now... its juz i find fate is a v funny thing.. if there is something as fate that controls ur life.. why do people still fight so hard to live?

then like newton under an apple tree or aristotle on a piece of rock, i found the answer.

fate is not destiny....

there is a difference... its not wat u thinking now lor..

fate means that things will eventually comes to this point if u do certain things...
destiny means that it will reach a certain point no matter wat u do....

its very similar yet different.. the meaning is so profound that sometimes i dun even noe wat am i talking about but i think that fate have a major part to play in everone's love life..

so for those out there, juz do what u need to do and things will take its course..thats fate...

Hmmm.. maybe i shld try to hang something far far away to see if it comes back to me...
siao ah! it will get stolen lor...

somethings may be absurd, but sometimes true...